Decorating Idea for the Fall! Pumpkin Topiary
Saw this in a magazine and loved it! Thought I would share with all you mama's! Go to Goodwill and pick up a planter. 
Google Text! No more 411!
Everyone knows that I LOVE Google. I’m the biggest fan they have, and today I learned one more reason to gush about them! So when you’re out and about and you have to call to get in for a quick bang trim, or want to call the kids’ school to tell them that your son is going home with Grandma, how do you find the number? Call 411? Sure it’s helpful but it’s also expensive. Here’s how you can do it from now on: Go into your contacts on your phone. Add a contact by the name of Google. Then type in the number 466453. When you need a number, address, or quick info, text Google and within about three seconds, your question is answered! So cool, right? Say goodbye to 411 fees!
School Lunch-Box Ideas!
Hurrah! The kids are back in school! Sure it’s more work to get four children up and out in the morning. Nevertheless it is a glorious day indeed! Back to laying out clothes, back to alarm clocks, back to making lunches. The problem is, come October, my kids are bored with their daily sandwiches. This list of ideas will help you save money AND keep your kids’ lunchboxes interesting!
One alternative to sliced bread is mini party buns. You know those little buns that sliders are made on? They somehow take away the blahs from the very same sandwich fix-ins on sliced bread. My preschooler and 4th grader each take one in their lunch with turkey & lettuce; my older kids pack two.
Next is yet another Costco alert! A huge bag of dinner rolls is only $3.49, and these can be used at school as well as warmed up for supper. Wraps also spice up a sammy- cream cheese, avocado spread, the works. Roll it up & it’s a fun, easy meal item.
Mini bagels come in a huge bag too, and we keep ours in the freezer. My children waste bagels in their typical size, but these minis are just right. They make breakfast super simple, too.
My next tip might not apply to you if you only have two kids. Since I have four kids, it’s much more cost effective for me to buy a huge turkey breast for $1.69 per pound and slice it myself than to spend a small fortune on six pre-sliced pieces of lunchmeat. I can spend up to $5 on pre-sliced, and it’s gone in a day or two. So I buy the big guy, slice it all in one sitting, and use it on sandwiches and salads throughout the week. Simple ad savvy!
Hope these ideas wake up your sandwiches, since there are hundreds of them to make this year! As an added and oh-so-sweet idea, you can add fun stickers to your kids’ sandwich baggies, and use plain old address labels to write your own lunchbox notes, and then stick them on!
How to have a Family Meeting
Hi everybody, it’s back to school time! While we’re all celebrating the return to our routines and a new season, it’s a great time to make sure the whole family is on the same page. Our family tackles this with family meetings.
Family meetings have numerous benefits; including bringing the family together, connecting, and getting everyone dialed in. After we hold ours, there are no surprises and we all feel heard. The back-to-school topic is a crucial one for families. At the end of this posting, I’ll share our last family meeting’s agenda which covers all the changes that come in the fall. All ages can benefit from family meetings, from preschoolers on up to teenagers, as long as it’s quick, follows a predictable format, and remains pretty informal.
As parents, family meetings give us a chance to be proactive, little problems can be addressed before they grow. As kids, appreciate their turn to listen and their turn to speak, as long as it’s about 15 minutes or so… especially for teens!
The points we touch on in our family meetings start with announcements. Any “don’t forgets,” a new sports season, a history exam. Next we share celebrations. Anyone can share something they feel proud of or excited about: an A on a test, a goal scored or an encouraging note from the teacher. Our family calendar is then highlighted for the week or the month, addressing upcoming school events or birthday party invitations. A quick review follows, checking in on how chores are going, or the morning schedule. This is brief and does not zero in on any one child (individual parenting happens at another time, without the audience, perhaps after the meeting). We then allow our children to voice any grievances they have. In our house, we hear a lot of talk about making bedtime later or a fair rotation for turns in the front seat. Lastly, we talk about goals. I write them down, so we can check in at the next meeting. Making goals is an important skill for our children to learn, but this time can also be for prayer requests.
This all may sound daunting, but it’s much more informal than it sounds. Below, I share our meeting agenda regarding going back to school. This visual can be your catalyst to get your family meetings rolling, just in time for the big switch in seasons.
1st month of school – FAMILY MEETING AGENDA
- Everyone share their favorite summer memory
- Review new bedtimes for all the kids
- Chores
- Daily chores vs. weekend chores
- Who does what?
- What the consequences are if they are not done
- Review your expectations for the “morning routine”
- Alarm clocks
- Showers
- Packing lunches
- The time my car leaves the driveway! J
- Review “afterschool routine”
- Where backpacks, shoes, sweatshirts should always be put after school
- Empty your own lunch box and put it on the counter
- All papers to sign, homework etc… put on the kitchen table
- Playtime and snack is GREAT, but after the 15 minutes of chores is done
- Expectations for “homework”
- Always done immediately after dinner
- Done at the kitchen table unless you need the computer
- Before bedtime
- All backpacks are ready
- Lunch is packed (minus the sandwich )
- Clothes are picked out for the next day
- Everyone share their personal GOAL or HOPE for the first month of school
JOYfully,
Jen LOVElady
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Cool gadget when your kids DON’T have cell phones
Quick communication with your kids!
We just got back from Cabo, and it was the first big trip for our kids. We brought along something to keep us all in check as we all went about seeing what the resort had to offer the different age ranges of our family. These Motorola walkie-talkies kept us in the know when our kids were headed to the hotel room to shower while the rest of us were at the pool, or if they wanted to join in at bingo or an art project. I can see that these will be really helpful back at home too, when our 6-year-old walks to the neighbors house, or if we’re camping and the kids are riding their bikes around. They just clip right on to your pants, and they’re really easy to use. Love these easy devices for keeping track of my kids and communicating with them!
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Pick up the PHONE…
I receive hundreds of emails each week, and I try to reply to every one of them when someone has taken the time to email me, send me a message on Facebook or YouTube, or leave a comment on my site. The other day I was doing just that, clearing out my inbox, and a couple of emails remained. I hadn’t written back to these particular ladies for a couple of days because I felt that it required a little more time than the average weekly check-in from my Mommy Coaching programs, for example. I felt prompted to actually pick up the phone and talk to these two women whose names faced me on the screen.
The problem was that I had never met these women. They reached out to me when they saw me online. And I wanted to speak one on one to them. One mom was Stephanie, in Philly. One mom was Tracy in Nebraska. Maybe it was the impact that Tracy’s story had on me. As a single mom to five little girls under the age of six, her story gave me perspective; while we all feel we have rough days, the image of caring for those little ones left me feeling like I had it pretty darn easy. So I knew I wanted to reach right on back, and that meant that I had to track them down.
I felt prompted to call. Email is easy. Texting is easy. And they work great, in most scenarios. But there are times when a phone call makes all the difference. So I started my search for these women’s phone numbers. I looked on Facebook. I used the phone book. I called family members! When I finally contacted these strangers, both women were so moved at the measure I’d taken. Tears came to their eyes, and I’ll tell you, they weren’t the only ones touched. I relearned a good lesson too. Once in a while, pick up the phone!
This example is a good one for us all: when we feel compelled, we should make the call. Let email, texting, and Facebook do the work for you, but when it comes to human connections, let the voices be heard! Let’s set the example for our kids too, who have all of these handy resources available to them, sometimes to a fault.
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